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Jenn Dolari ([personal profile] dolari) wrote2010-11-14 04:57 pm

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Am I the only one who gets annoyed at "a transgender?" Its "a transgendered (proper noun)." It is NOT who I am, but a CONDITION of who I am.

I am not "A transgender" but a "transgendered woman."

::waits for the hate mail to start pouring in::

[identity profile] says-simon.livejournal.com 2010-11-14 11:08 pm (UTC)(link)
yeah, it's an adjective, not a noun. Irritating to hear it used the wrong way. btw, I'm a transsexual.

[identity profile] tekalynn.livejournal.com 2010-11-15 12:02 am (UTC)(link)
I agree. The grammar makes me shudder whenever I see that term. It's also dehumanizing as all hell.

[identity profile] valeriekeefe.livejournal.com 2010-11-15 12:18 am (UTC)(link)
It's like hearing my grandpa saying "is he a gay?"

[identity profile] didactic-cudgel.livejournal.com 2010-11-15 12:28 am (UTC)(link)
I completely agree with you. It sets my teeth on edge.

[identity profile] kyleprime.livejournal.com 2010-11-15 12:29 am (UTC)(link)
I just call you Jenn. fuck labels

[identity profile] emilydm.livejournal.com 2010-11-15 01:09 am (UTC)(link)
I wrote about this six years ago, almost to the day - http://emilydm.livejournal.com/50613.html , second to last paragraph.

[identity profile] laura-seabrook.livejournal.com 2010-11-15 02:22 am (UTC)(link)
Absolutely - we are people, NOT things. But it has become common usage. We are not the only minorities to cope such either, as I'm sure you're aware. Do you have a similar problem say, being called "the mexican" (if that happens)?

[identity profile] interactiveleaf.livejournal.com 2010-11-18 06:13 pm (UTC)(link)
It sounds bad (I think) because it's a minority reference. That is, I have no problem being referred to as "a woman" and M has no problem being called "a man". Also, to my ears, calling someone "a Christian" is normal whereas calling someone "a Jew" is weird and potentially worrisome, and I vaguely remember a thread on LJ years ago where many Jews agreed, saying that "Jewish" was fine but being called "a Jew" was not cool.