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Jul. 31st, 2022 05:54 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
dolariWhen it comes to waiting on Yes/No life decisions, which advice is best to take? I've been given these over the years:
1) Believe you won't get what you want: It hurts less when you are ready for dissapointment, allows you to move on faster, and in the end gets you ready for the next one.
2) Believe you will get what you want: You have to manifest your own success and visualize the win through the power of positive thinking.
3) The fate of the decision is out of your hands: You have no direct control over it, so why worry? If it happens, it happens. If it doesn't, it doesn't.
1) Believe you won't get what you want: It hurts less when you are ready for dissapointment, allows you to move on faster, and in the end gets you ready for the next one.
2) Believe you will get what you want: You have to manifest your own success and visualize the win through the power of positive thinking.
3) The fate of the decision is out of your hands: You have no direct control over it, so why worry? If it happens, it happens. If it doesn't, it doesn't.
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Date: 2022-08-01 01:12 am (UTC)I don't really know which of those three will work for me. I'm afraid that whatever I choose, it will backfire.
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Date: 2022-08-02 01:59 am (UTC)So I do 2 and then panic and do 1 and get super depressed.
I hope that ... helps?